We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Julia Grigio a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.
Julia , thank you so much for joining us today. Let’s jump right into something we’re really interested in hearing about from you – being the only one in the room. So many of us find ourselves as the only woman in the room, the only immigrant or the only artist in the room, etc. Can you talk to us about how you have learned to be effective and successful in situations where you are the only one in the room like you?
The First Time I Noticed
The first newsroom I ever walked into was alive with the clatter of keyboards, the hum of phones, and the palpable buzz of deadlines. But it didn’t take me long to notice something else: I was the only person in the room who looked like me.
I remember feeling an uneasy mix of pride and pressure. Pride because I had earned my place at the table, but I was pressure because I felt like I had to prove over and over that I belonged there.
Navigating Uncharted Territory
Being “the only one” means navigating unspoken dynamics. I had to balance being true to my perspective while ensuring my voice wasn’t dismissed as “too different” or “too biased.” It wasn’t just about reporting the story but about earning trust in a space where my presence sometimes felt unexpected.
I recall pitching a story about a community issue affecting a marginalized neighborhood. Someone in the room questioned its relevance, describing it as “too niche.” At that moment, I realized my perspective wasn’t just valuable but necessary. That story wasn’t niche; it was ignored.
Turning Isolations into Strength
Being the only one in the room taught me to listen deeply and observe keenly. I became adept at reading between the lines, understanding what was said and what was left unsaid. This skill became invaluable as I started to get my interview process started. It also often helps me to uncover stories others might have missed.
I also learned to build bridges; while I sometimes felt like an outsider, I found allies in unexpected places who valued my perspective and challenged me to grow. I didn’t wait for the room to change; I became a catalyst for change within it.
Overcoming Challenges
There were challenges, of course. Microaggressions, like someone assuming I was an intern or questioning my credentials, chipped away at my confidence. There were moments when I doubted myself, wondering if I’d ever be fully seen or respected.
But I leaned on my community, both inside and outside. I sought mentorship from journalists who had faced similar hurdles and found solidarity in spaces where I didn’t have to explain myself. Most importantly, I reminded myself that my unique lens wasn’t a liability; it was my superpower.
Redefining Success
Over time, I redefined what success meant for me. It wasn’t just about climbing the ranks or earning awards but about creating impact. I used my platform to tell stories that mattered, often focusing on underrepresented communities and issues others overlooked.
One of my proudest moments came when mentor said, “Thank you for letting your voice be heard.”. At that moment, I realized that being the only one in the room wasn’t just a challenge. It was a responsibility.
Lessons Learned
Being the only one in the room taught me to:
1. Trust my voice: My perspective was unique, an asset, not a burden.
2. Build coalitions: I didn’t have to take this path alone. Allies and mentors were crucial.
3. Stay resilient: Every challenge was an opportunity to grow stronger and more determined
Looking Ahead
Today, I walk into a newsroom with a sense of purpose. I know that my presence helps pave the way for others who might feel like they don’t belong. I’ve learned to survive in spaces where I’m the only one and thrive, proving that diversity isn’t just about representation; it’s about transformation.
And while I may still find myself as the only one in the room at times, I know this: my voice matters, my issues of voice, my stories matter, and the room is better for having me in it.
If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?
1. Empathy and Active Listening
Your ability to connect with others and truly listen to their stories has been essential in uncovering meaningful narratives. Empathy lets you capture the humanity behind facts, making your reporting authentic and relatable.
2. Community Awareness and Engagement
Understanding your local community’s needs, dynamics, and unique challenges has shaped your storytelling. This knowledge has enabled you to report on issues that matter most to your audience, earning their trust and respect.
3. Resilience and Adaptability
As a mother and healthcare professional, balancing multiple responsibilities has built your resilience and taught you to adapt quickly. These skills have empowered you to navigate journalism’s fast-paced and unpredictable world, always finding creative ways to pursue your passion.
My advice for those early in their journey is to embrace learning and growth with patience and curiosity. Start by identifying your core values and passions, which will guide you through challenges and motivate you. Focus on building a solid foundation of skills by seeking mentors, engaging in continuous learning, and practicing consistently. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes; they are invaluable lessons that refine your craft and strengthen your resolve. Surround yourself with supportive people who inspire and challenge you to be your best, and take time to reflect on your progress. Remember, every small forward is still progress, so celebrate the wins, learn from setbacks, and trust your ability to grow and improve.
All the wisdom you’ve shared today is sincerely appreciated. Before we go, can you tell us about the main challenge you are currently facing?
The number one obstacle I am currently facing is self-doubt. As a single mother of four, healthcare professional, and aspiring entrepreneur, I often question whether I can balance it all and succeed in my endeavors. This inner dialogue sometimes makes me second-guess my abilities, especially when pursuing my passion for journalism—and local reporting. The fear of failure or not being “good enough” can feel overwhelming.
To overcome this challenge, I am actively working on reshaping my mindset. As a reminder of my progress, I’ve started journaling to track my achievements, no matter how small. I am also seeking inspiration from others who have overcome similar struggles and surrounding myself with supportive people who believe in me. Additionally, I’ve committed to embracing the learning process, understanding that mistakes are part of growth, and focusing on the value I bring rather than the fear of imperfection. Slowly, I’m learning to trust myself and my journey.
Contact Info:
- Other: juliagriogo@gmail.com
